Absolutely Alexis! I love how you worded that… “Go find it!” What an exciting invitation!
There are many pockets of the US where as you call it the “tough life model” still operates. I really feel that this is mostly very strong with the older generations. As the younger ones are growing up, they are more and more accustomed to a life of ease and abundance… However, that would be a complete generalization. There is so much variety around us… even in my small circle… it is challenging for me to identify themes especially because I feel that my perspective shapes what I witness. Thank you for reading, and for sharing your thoughts!!

Hi Brandi, when we go through major trauma the process of turning it into a decision to feel good or not, definitely seems like denial, being fake, and oversimplification. While the concept is simple, it’s not always easy – especially at first. The decision to deliberately feel good is absolutely something that needs to be decided on a moment-by-moment basis. When life is gnawing at us, I believe in the “Feel it to heal it” concept. We must face whatever is causing the disruption so that we can navigate it with consciousness, rather than ignoring the inner nudge and letting life happen to us. I spent a lot of time ignoring my inner wisdom and tolerated bad situations. When we know we are worthy of better, we will seek out the support we need to overcome… like you have with your choice to start therapy over a year ago. I honor you for that. It can’t be an easy road… but absolutely one that your future self with thank you for!! Much love to you, and all my best for feeling good!

So, suffering has a bright side ! Otherwise, it should never be for a lifetime. Suffering should always be temporary. If it seems to be just “normal” for someone, you can be sure that he is wrong and just keeping himself back with limiting beliefs, indeed.

I think that the “tough life model” is still very existing in the christian based societies. At least in France. What about USA ?

But, while that’s not necessarily the way it works all the time (in its entirety, at least) it does help. Counting my blessings feels better than counting my troubles – and it seems I always have more of whichever one I’m counting.

Hi Alexis! Thank you for sharing your insight. It’s so great to connect with like-minded folks. Cheers to a softer world! XO

The best way to make a better world is to start by making a better “self”. Well said !

Alexis

“Do not follow the path , create your own path and leave a trail.” I love that! Thank you for sharing your perspective Jessica!

I appreciate your perspective, Brandi. Sending peace and love can be really challenging because it feels as if we’re saying what he did was ok. The intention is not to condone or approve of the people or their hurtful actions, but to transform negative to positive. When we make a conscious decision to put positive energy out into the world in the form of peace and love, I feel we can truly heal not just ourselves, but our planet as well.